How to win an argument with someone?
3:25 AM
To
be a successful person in arguing and make others accept your point of view,
you have to respect others' point of view. Each person has his own ideas and
point of views that differ from others'. It's not necessary to have the same
ones to get what you want.
1-
When you argue with someone, try to use a quite tone and try to be calm. Let
him/her say what he/she wants and you just keep listening with saying such
words (aha, mm, good) until he/she finishes. Then you can start to speak by
saying that's good but I think .., or I prefer (say your opinion).
E.g
I like your dress but I think the red one will be better.
I
agree with you but I prefer the other one.
2-
Understand the speaker's point of view.
3-
Use good words.
4-
Don't be negative because everyone has his own opinion.
5-
Less words can express what you want to say.
6-
If there is no avail of the argument, stop arguing.'
These
tips may help you to get what you want without losing your friends or anyone
else you argue with. Arguing
with violence doesn't mean you are the strongest. Try to attract people with
your calm manner. Everyone had his own point of view so you didn't need to
fight to win. You had better accept his point of view.
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